Portrait of Brenda A. Butler

Obituary · Millersburg, OH

Brenda A. Butler

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Brenda cherished moments with her family and grandchildren.

"To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die."
— Thomas Campbell
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After a life of love and quiet grace, Brenda A. Butler of Millersburg, OH has passed.

Some lives speak quietly; her is one such story.

Some people pass through; others leave a path.

Brenda A. Butler 70, of Millersburg, Ohio went home to be with the Lord Monday May 4, 2026, at Majora Lane Care Center.

Funeral services will be held 11 a.m. Saturday May 9th at Alexander Funeral Home, with Pastor Dale Duncan officiating. Burial will follow at Valley View Cemetery, Warsaw, Ohio.

Friends may call Friday May 8th from 4 to 6 p.m. at the funeral home.

Donations in Brenda's memory may be made to any mental health organization of the donor's choice.

Brenda was born September 21, 1955, and was the daughter of the late Upman and Anna (McFarland) Aling. Brenda was a graduate of Hiland High School. She found joy in reading the Bible and taking part in church events. Brenda cherished moments with her family and grandchildren.

Brenda is survived by her daughters, Pamela (Josh) Etzwiler and Renae (Tim) Wade; her grandchildren, Mason and Wiley Etzwiler, and Kara and Timothy Wade; her sisters, Shirley Drake and Karen Paulocsak; her brother, Upton "Scott" Aling; and several nieces and nephews.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her sister Barbara Eyler.

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