It is with sorrow and gratitude that we mark the passing of Emma Loraine Vogel of Sumner, WA — sorrow at the loss, gratitude for the life.
Here is what mattered, in the years between the dates.
The years gathered, as years do, into a life.
Emma Lorainne Vogel, lovingly known as Emma “Roo” Vogel of Tacoma WA, died on March 26th, 2026 at aged 59.For 30 years, Emma was a vibrant part of the Bernadette Jones Adult Family Home. She was the heart of a chosen family, cherished deeply by Chandra Jones, her “sister” and guardian, Bernadette Jones, Debbie Clinger, Carol Meyers, Reno Bigornia, Joanne Johnson, Crystal Nuss, Kimberly Rader and so many, many others.Emma attended MultiCare Adult Day Health for over 20 years and Metro Parks Daytime Actives Center where she had many friends. Emma loved music, Little Golden Books, activities and her rocking chairs, of which she owned many over the years. Emma brought joy to all who met her.Emma was the most significant person in Chandra’s life, and their bond was one of deep love, devotion, and unwavering connection. Emma inspired those around her in profound ways. Emma was not just a sister; she was an inspiration. It was because of Emma that Chandra became a social worker and a tireless advocate for those with Down syndrome and other disabilities.Though Emma faced challenges early in life, she never let them define her. Instead, she lived with warmth, resilience, and an unwavering ability to love others.Emma was deeply loved and deserved attentive, compassionate care that honored her dignity and needs at every stage of her life. In her final chapter, those closest to her witnessed care that fell far short of that standard. We are heartbroken and angered by what we experienced and by the condition of Emma’s care. It is our belief that she did not receive the level of attention, responsiveness, and respect that she deserved.Our grief is compounded by these concerns, and we feel a responsibility to speak plainly about them. Emma’s life mattered. She deserved to be safe, valued, and properly cared for at all times.In her memory, we will continue to advocate for accountability and for stronger protections for vulnerable individuals, so that others receive the dignity and care that Emma deserved.Chandra wishes to express her deep gratitude to Bernadette for all her love, care and dedication to Emma and all the residents she cared for in her home until she retired in 2022. A very special thanks to Debbie Clinger for all of her care, love, support and advocacy of Emma in her last month of life.To my Emma Roo, I love you sissy. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the National Down Syndrome Society.
